animated world

hmmm whats to blabber ek..
topik hangat skang ni...KAWEN!

sorang demi sorang mmber ak bg jemputan kenduri kawen diorang.mintak2 alamat la..post kt fb la..macam2 lagi la.ramai gak mmber2 sebaya ak yang dah kawen. dah ade anak pn ade.bile terjumpe diorang, soalan lazim, "ko bile plak zam?". ak spontan je,"lambat lagi...".

bagi ak, kawen tu its not something yg ko kene kejar.no need to terburu-buru.theres a saying,"kalo dah jodoh tu, tak kemana".so just follow the flow.everything is destined but u still need to work for it la. its not something yg akan datang bergolek kt ko without doing anything.but the thing that make me mcm kurang setuju is the matter of timing. we are still young la guys. enjoy all these moments while u still can. we r wat? 23 kut~ still far from 30.but doesnt mean i urge u guys to kawen at that age.just wanna xplain wat im trying to say here.

"kawen awal leh elak maksiat","because he's the one ive been waiting for", bla bla bla...all of these are so cliche. im not saying that its not true, it is true if we look at the islamic views pasal maksiat2 tu. but i think it's applied to those yg kaki maksiat la.nampak sgt..wat if to those yg baik2, but still not eligible for it? and if they kawen, n this will lead to bigger problem caused by the lack of preparation due to the so-called "terpaksa". my main concern is actually the preparation of ur own economic stability.fikir diri dulu before make the decision.its ur future. jangan tergatal-gatal ikut orang. if rase diri tu dah btol2 stabil n boleh survive in current world, why not.kalo mcm tu mmg ak galakkn la kawen. cube la pk panjang sket. jauhkn sket je. ko gaji ckup2 makan, then bile ko kawen plak, dah nak support bini..ttbe terberanak plak..dgn keadaan ko time tu, mampu ke?i just saying like this because ak ni sorang yg particular bab2 ni.ak mmg pentingkn kawen tu sbb bg ak thats the biggest thing that ever happen in ur life.if i may, once in a lifetime la. so bg ak, if ak nak kawen, ak make sure atleast ak leh support anak bini ak for 10years ahead. prepare urself with everything that u'll need. thats y ak prefer kawen lmbat sket. tapi if jodoh ak awal, ak terima seadanya la.redha je.=)

pernah gak ak dgr kawen awal sbb alasan ni, "takut diri tak laku"..adeh..cant u just have faith once in urself? tuhan ciptakn makhluknya berpasang-pasangan.no worries.tuhan knows better.just keep on believing in Him.insyaAllah..=)

ok la.mcm biasa..ngantuk dah datang..so konklusinya pak..if soal kawen, jgn la terburu-buru or terikut-ikut dgn org lain. always think of urself 1st b4 make the desicion related to bab2 kawen ni.if rase mampu, then go for it. if not, why not bersabar a bit, keep on improving on the preparation so that senang sket ur family in future. kawen tu tiang agama. its like mendirikan masjid. tiang tu kene kuat for lasting architecture. so prepare urself inner n outer. if anything that is built based on lust, it wont last.
renung2kn la..=)

ckup saje bebelan ku malam ini sekadar menunggu ngantuk tiba..
ittidodulukimas!
=)